Molly Steiner

Core Desired Feelings peace, love, freedom, abundance, clarity, safety

Specialty life coaching, life transitions, holistic nutrition, reiki, sobriety

About Me

You would think getting clean would make all of your problems disappear. In actuality, when the drugs and alcohol are gone…the real work begins.

10 years ago I found myself in jail, with no home, no job, not allowed to see my son, and very little family or friends left in my life. I had hit the very rock bottom of my life.

Through conventional treatment (over 200 days to be exact!) and a new-found desire to live the happiest, healthiest, and fullest life possible, I have been drug-free for almost a decade. A huge part of my recovery process has been incorporating the concepts found in The Desire Map, which is what led me to seek out becoming a facilitator in 2016.

While creating a life I love has come with it’s myriad of challenges (Hello, Real Life!) it has also come with an abundance of blessings including my two wonderful sons and an education in health, nutrition, life coaching, and more that I add to on a daily basis. Not only have I been able to learn how to live a happy, healthy and clean life, I am able to help others do the same.

Contact Info

Phone: 312/857-6347

Email: ms@mollysteiner.co

Website: http:mollysteiner.co

Q & A

Q: What are your Core Desired Feelings?

Currently, my Core Desired Feelings are Peace, Love, Freedom, Abundance and Joy. I like to revisit them at the very least every year and they are fluid, changing as I change and grow.

Q: How / where did you Desire Map? What did you love about doing it that way?

The first time I went through the Desire Mapping process it was just me! I have always been into personal development and journaling, so going through it with just me was totally amazing. Now, I participate in virtual desire maps as an attendee and a facilitator as well as do my own desire mapping during my live programs!

Q: Tell me a specific story about how knowing your CDFs has changed your life.

Keeping my Core Desired feelings at the forefront of my goal setting and decision-making processes has truly changed so many areas of my life. Specifically and most recent, I have been at a crossroads regarding where to live. I had been traveling around for a couple of years, staying in different parts of the country and eventually coming home to the Midwest. I had to make a decision about where to settle for awhile so I can focus on a big professional change (one that I discovered while going through the Desire Map this year!) Needless to say, focusing on my CDF's helped me make yet another great decision.

Q: Why are you passionate about sharing this work with others?

I am passionate about sharing this work because it has not only changed my life, my clients lives as well as the way I work with my clients! When you have The Desire Map as a foundation to everything you do, you truly can have joy, abundance and the peace you deserve in your personal and professional life.


Before working with Molly, I lacked confidence, did not have a stellar group of friends, and hated my dead end job. We immediately started working on this and within a few weeks I felt like a new person :) I have a lot more confidence, which inspired me to leave the job I hated. I now love my work and am feeling better every day. Thank you!


Molly has been amazingly helpful! She has helped me with all my "stuff", that includes family, relationship, and dealing with family members dying. She is extremely intuitive! Molly makes me feel like I'm the most important and worthy person. I truly don't know what I would do without her.



I offer a six-week virtual workshop, one-day in-person workshops, week-end retreats, PLUS 1:1 business and lifestyle coaching using the concepts in The Desire Map and Firestarter Sessions.
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21 Aug 2018

The Desire Map Level 1: 6-Week Virtual Workshop

Led By: Molly Steiner

How do you want to feel?

During this 6-week virtual exploration, we are going to uncover?.

How do you want to feel when you look at your schedule for the week?
When you get dressed in the morning?
When you walk through the door of your studio or your office?
When you pick up the phone?
When you cash the check, accept the award, finish your masterpiece, make the sale, or fall in love?

Soul-centered living. Ahhhh.

Desire More??  Yes, you do!

21 Jun 2018
San Diego, California, United States

Summer Soulstice in San Diego, California

Led By: Molly Steiner
Join me for an enchanting and soul-nourishing experience by the sea in beautiful San Diego, California, June 21-24, 2018.

The week-end begins with a Soulstice Celebration on the beach with your fellow soul-sisters.  After that we retreat to our beautiful accommodations to rest and relax in preparation for a fun- and sun-filled week-end.

Day 1: Discovery
Day 2: Intentions and Goals, plus a fun afternoon/evening outing
Day 3: All about self-care and bringing the experience back to your real life

All accommodations are included: Double occupancy suite (individual queen beds) in Five-Star beachside hotel Thursday through Saturday night. Beachside dinner on Thursday, BLD Friday and Saturday with a lovely brunch on Sunday. 
Rides to and from the San Diego International airport can be arranged.
8 Mar 2018

The Desire Map Level 2: 6-Week Virtual Workshop

Led By: Molly Steiner
The Desire Map Workshop Level 2 is the practical application of the core desired feelings that you identified in the Level 1 Workshop. This is where clarity meets action. In the next level of the Desire Map process, you will:

1. Explore perceptions of goals and goal-setting in relationship to ambition, external approval, and success.

Most people will identify at least one pattern of behavior related to goal-setting that has been restricting their capacity for freedom. In this workshop, we create a sacred space that will help you meaningfully reorient your relationship with goals into one that helps you do, have, and experience what you most desire to feel.

2. Identify a handful of goals or intentions that are aligned with your core desired feelings and create a plan to support them.

You may want not want to set any goals. You might want to set one hundred goals that are attached to precise measurables. All of that is totally good with me. I am here to support you in your journey.


When you are clear on how you most want to feel, you turn traditional goal setting inside out. Constant racing for success creates habitual and unconscious goal-setting. The Goals with Soul workshop is going to help you relearn how to move toward your dreams ? with trust and well-placed devotion. The more you choose your core desired feelings over your external objectives, the more content you will become.

Go after the goals that nourish your spirit, with your core desired feelings? as the compass. Goals with Soul will energize you and, when you?re on track moving toward such goals, life will keep throwing synchronicities your way.

Feeling good is the whole point.


The Desire Map Facilitator Program

Workshop, retreat, and coaching curriculum for all good souls.


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