Does your partner know what you desire?
“Last night my hubby and I sat and mapped his (core desired feelings). He realized that he stopped desiring for things when he was around 12 years old. He said to me, “Wow babe, I feel like I’m finally getting back my appetite to live.” Needless to say, it was a beautiful night. – Vasavi
When you know how someone truly wants to feel, then you can do what you can to help them feel that way. Love is pretty simple that way.
Desire … mapping.
I created The Desire Map as a life-planning tool for individuals — any age, any time of the year. (Well actually, I created it for myself, tinkered with it for eight years and then thought, I’ve gotta set this loose.) A lot of great epiphany stories have been rolling in since The Desire Map released, and every single one grabs my heart.
Especially the reports of couples getting closer. Oh my yes.
“I never in a million years thought that my man would be keen to do the [Desire Map] workbook with me… However, I read him the first 3 pages of The Desire Map and he immediately agreed to do it with me. And he’s taking it pretty seriously, so exciting!” – Shannon
“A quiet moment tonight at the dinner table with my guy… I gently invited the question “What would you like to feel between now and next summer?” I grabbed a sheet of paper… “Okay, if you felt X, it would mean feeling what? and X would mean you’d feel what?”, and so forth till it felt complete… for HIM! No judgment or expectations. I showed genuine enthusiasm and interest… He seemed to enjoy the attention. I didn’t talk about myself. I just held space for him. We have to find a way to open the door without it feeling like we want to change them. No one wants to be changed… but everyone wants to feel loved and supported for who they are!” – Teresa
“I talked with my husband recently about the concept of Core Desired Feelings. He got it right away and in less than 5 minutes he had come up with a list of five core desired feelings. I just had to keep asking the question ‘And what would that feel like?’”- Caroline
“My husband sat down and watched the “Goals with Soul” workshop with me last night. He was totally into it and afterwards we stayed up until 1:30am in a deep and delicious conversation about business, life, feelings, what we want and so much more.” – Angie
So whether you’ve got The Desire Map program on your iPad for a road trip with your hottie, or you’re curled up on the couch with the worksheets and your love, or you’re out for a drink with your paramour, make sure it leads to this: “What would you like to feel between now and, say… this time next year?”
Feel your way.