What needs to change? Look at what sucks without criticizing yourself.

Free and Clear Week 3 Danielle LaPorte

Heyyyy. Freedom Fighters. Actually, I don’t love the term “Fighter”. Maybe “Crusaders” is better. Or “Lovers”. Let’s go With Freedom Lovers

Dear Freedom Lovers,

This week’s Free & Clear exercise could be a bit of a downer, especially on top of the news these days. But we need to see the muck we’re in so we can resolve to find a way out of it. Or through it.

WEEK 3: WANT TO CHANGE

Free and Clear Want to Change

You’re going to look at what you want to change in your life. That typically implies dissatisfaction. Sometimes, it’s been a long term, exhausting dissatisfaction. Serious fugh-ness. Or maybe it’s something that side-swept you and now you need to clean up the wreckage. Doing this kind of work is the difference between suffering and relief, mediocrity and real pleasure. Looking at this stuff directly is how you go from stuck and befughled (new word) to… Free & Clear.

There’s a layer of psychological refinement that we’re adding to this. You’re going to look at what needs to change WITHOUT laying a guilt trip on yourself (or anyone else). You’re observing, not criticizing. Criticism clouds your clarity, so resist that destructive impulse and simply name what you’d like to change. It’s incredibly empowering to come from that “observer” position.

One more layer to this: Don’t concern yourself with how you’re going to fix what’s bothering you. That kind of thinking can come later. FIRST: get clarity around what sucks and what you want to shift. Download your WANT TO CHANGE worksheet HERE.

Let’s jam on this together TOMORROW: Wednesday, October 24, on the @desiremap Instagram at 12pm PST | 3pm EST.

Free and Clear Want to Change

HOW TO WATCH LIVE:
Instagram: On your phone find @desiremap. Click on the profile photo and join my Live Story. When it’s over, you can view it again for up to 24 hours, in the same place!

Facebook: I’ll be streaming live in the Desire Map Facebook Group. The video will appear at the top of the group page.

CATCH THE REPLAY anytime on @desiremap’s IGTV or in the Desire Map Facebook Group.

This innerwork could be how you go from stuck and suffering to… Free & Clear.

With this kind of gorgeous clarity, manifestation becomes a super-charged process. And you can really put your Soul into your goals.

All Love,

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Around the corner…
The theme for the next FREE & CLEAR exercise will be: STOP DOING. The STOP DOING LIST is one of my favourite things to do for myself every year. It’s a total rush. Prepare for liberation.

Before you go…
Spotify Playlist: RIVERS TO REVOLUTIONS

Tunes: Some music for your contemplations…
Ship to Wreck, Florence & the Machine
Iron Sky, Paolo Nutini
Speak Out, Marle Thomson (Live Acoustic)
Time After Time, Cyndi Lauper
Traces of You, Anoushka Shankar
River, Leon Bridges
Blessed To Be Witness, Ben Harper
Revolution, Simrit
Only Love, Ben Howard

Even more: In case you’re slipping into self-judgment, I hope this helps:
Make changes without criticizing the past—your future will thank you for it.


 

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