The password to open up more space in your life

Imagine being excited by pretty much EVERYTHING that you’re up to in your life. You look at your schedule and think, “My life is soooo good. OBVIOUSLY.” You feel free, you feel empowered.

You want that, right? Then here’s the password to that spaciousness. One word: No.

I know. “No” can be difficult to deliver.  But… step up and give it. You have to put yourself first. (And that’s not selfish. That’s powerful, wise, and respectful.)

I know you’re worried about letting people down, I know you don’t want to look like a beehatch, I know you don’t want to miss out on opportunities. I know you want to do the right thing. The right thing when you’re feeling compromised, or over-obligated is, No, Thank You.

Here in Vancouver we’re in Autumn mode—always a reminder that letting go can be beautiful. If you need extra support with releasing obligation and shoulds, then Desire Map your way to some more freedom!

FOR YOU: Download and print a fresh October Planner to help you 1) dream up what you want more of, and 2) decide what to say No to, to create more space and freedom. The October Planner includes:

  • An astrology guide for the month to add some star power to your intentions.
  • A unique mantra or prayer, for comfort and guidance.
  • Desire Mapping prompts, #Truthbombs, gratitude prompts, and soulful journal prompts to help you stay connected to your core desires.
  • A choice between either the DAILY or WEEKLY layouts. Or you can try out both to figure out your planning style.

Become a master of saying No, Thank You… because on the other side of No is wide open space for what you REALLY want to say YES to.

So much Love,

Danielle LaPorte






PS: Share this with a friend who deserves more space + time for herself (which is, like, all of us.) xo

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