Posts Tagged as: change
when it’s time to stop healing and bust outta purgatory (and what my crush on ed harris has to do with enlightenment)
There comes a time to fight your way out of purgatory. Assess what you learned, bow to your healing process, and tear off the band-aids. Burn things. This is the time to make announcements and head out into the world even if your skin is a bit tender. You bust out of in-between when you declare that you.have.decided.to.live. No matter what. Starting now.
safe and sound
People only seriously consider change when they feel accepted for exactly who they are. - Carl Rogers
what it means to forgive
“…holding no prisoner to guilt, we become free.” - The Course In Miracles Someone asked me this week, “Have you forgiven so and so for such and such?” And I did the puppy head tilt, “Huh?” This question throws me for a loop. “Well…I don’t really feel like it’s my place to forgive them,” I...
the “i don’t know” conspiracy
Tough spot, painful circumstance, official dilemma. A total jam. “I just don’t know what to do.” Hmmm. Then what? If you just don’t know what to do, then what are you going to do? Probably nothing. If you declare you don’t know then you won’t…know. You’ll just sway back ‘n forth in the lull of...
don’t go changin’
Human beings are capable of incredible transformation. We break through. We break down. We re-invent and we rise from the ashes. Some people even manage to make quantum leaps and extreme emotional makeovers. But for most of us, we are just who we are and that’s that. People don’t change very much. Not really. Your...
learner’s permit
In times of change the learners shall inherit the earth, while the learned find themselves beautifully equipped to deal with a world that no longer exists. - Eric Hoffer
getting yourself
If you begin to understand what you are without trying to change it, then what you are undergoes a transformation. - J. Krishnamurti
are you willing to be toast?: authentic transformation
“Authentic transformation is…not a matter of translating the world but of transforming the world; not a matter of finding solace but of finding infinity on the other side of death. The self is not made content; the self is made toast.” - Ken Wilber There have been a few ideas that rocked my world. Krishnamurit’s...
farewell 2008: know your name
This is one of the most moving tracks off of Jason Mraz’s sweet, sexy CD, We Sing. We Dance. We Steal Things (2008). This song is a meditation in practical courage. … If it’s a broken part, replace it But, if it’s a broken arm then brace it If it’s a broken heart then face...
decide to succeed
I found every single successful person I’ve ever spoken to had a turning point and the turning point was where they made a clear specific unequivocal decision that they were not going to live like this anymore. That they were going to achieve success. And some people make that decision at 15 and some people...









