Tagged as: how to let go of the past

A question for cleaning your slate.

This is a big topic. Western self-help spirituality is great at getting us to identify our patterns and ‘isms’. After enough how-to books, workshops and therapy we can honorably say, “I’m neurotic because of my mother,” or “I’m a selfish because I didn’t get enough attention as a kid.” But identifying the source of your

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Eventually, you have to stop blaming your parents.

Eventually, you have to stop blaming your parents. Nurture nature. Hard done by, won by. Inherited, genetic, prophetic, pathetic. Too big, too little, too flat, too tight. Domineered, engineered, relegated, antiquated. Abandoned. Held too tight taking flight. A shrink friend of mine said the most common pattern he saw in human behavior was that people

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