2. Which {minutiae} bits matter least {in your life}?
The peer pressure to Twitter and optimize search words.
The dust bunnies beneath my desk.

3. In the context of your life, what types of minutiae once seemed important, but have since fallen by the wayside?
How people perceive me used to seem colossally important, now it seems like a detail. Which is not to say it’s an unimportant detail – I’m very interested in being understood, but external perception doesn’t govern my choices like it used to. I know who I am.

READ ALL OF THE QUESTIONS HERE.

This interview chain has been circulating online and I’ve decided to play. Basically, you agree to be interviewed by a fellow writer. Your answers are published on your blog and theirs. And in turn, you agree to interview anyone/someone who would like to be interviewed by you. And on it goes. An inquiry revolution. I love the meaningful connection that it’s generating.

Read THE INTERVIEW RULES at the end of this post if you’d like to be interviewed by moi.

Interview with Larry, founder of the {very thoughtful and poetic} blog, Yesterday, Today, Forever:

1. What three things do you do for yourself every day?
I used to abhor the very thought of routine. And now, my “routine” feels like a ritual and I adore it.

Snuggles: Morning snuggles with my little boy is essential. If we skip that love-rooting, than the whole day can feels a bit wonky, like one of the tires on our wagon is loose.

Breathing: I do some yoga “breaths of fire” every morning, either when I walk the dog (as long as no one is watching,) or in the kitchen. Whatever works. Fire breathing is defined as “a cleansing and energizing breath, powered by abdominal contractions.” I love it. Just a few fiery exhales can make the past go bye-bye and bring you right to where you are. The very best instructional resource I’ve found is from Kundalini yoga master Gurumuhk. Here’s a snippet from her awesome yoga DVD.

Perfume and mascara: even if I’m writing all day and won’t see a soul other than my hubby and kid, I’m rarely without my amber oil and black/brown mascara. A girl’s gotta feel good in every way.

2. When did you begin blogging? Has it changed the way you write?
Firstly, can I say that I really loathe the word “blog” or “blogging”? It sounds like “snot” or “blah.” I avoid referring to myself as a blogger – I am a writer who happens to publish my work online. And I think that even more fundamentally, I’m a philosopher who happens to write. And…I don’t consider myself a diarist (I’m too private) so the web-log terminology is even less fitting. Rant complete.

So, no, the medium of Internet publishing hasn’t changed the way I write. I’m fortunate that as a communications vehicle, the web is a great ride for my natural style of communicating, which tends to be pithy, quick, and direct. {and I didn’t really answer the question: I started writing when I was about 6.}

3. If I wanted to get you in a really good, peaceful mood, what should I do, say and plan.
Well, we would not be meeting at an outdoor café in the cold. (I have the metabolism of a reptile, if I’m not warm and cozy I’m distracted and cranky.) You should probably be incredibly honest. And you should probably bring some high-grade organic milk chocolate.

4. You can meet your favorite writer anywhere you like? Who and where do you meet?
I think Anne Lamott is a ruby gem of a human being. And we’d meet somewhere warm to laugh our butts off, philosophize, and eat milk chocolate. If she had to cancel, I’d meet with Leonard Cohen just about anywhere … even in an igloo.

5. What do you feel is the connection between longing and belonging (a la John O’Donohue)?
Great question. I think it’s a really precious dualism that you can’t escape if you want to be wide awake. We want to go home…we are home. We seek approval…we seek to be free. We want to be independent and truly self-referencing but the truth is that we do need each other … because we are each other. I think it’s just what Ken Wilber means when he refers to holarchy.

I think longing and belonging is the “interesting times” of our consciousness. It’s damn hard euphoria.

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THE INTERVIEW RULES
* leave me a comment saying: “interview me”
* all comments will be published
* I will e-mail you five questions of my choice
* you can then answer the questions on your blog {with a link back to my blog}
* you should also post these rules, along with an offer to interview anyone else who e-mails you wanting to be interviewed
* anyone who asks to be interviewed should be sent 5 questions to answer on their blog
* it would be nice if the questions were individualized for each blogger