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	<title>Comments on: talkin&#8217; sweet about love: what the shrinks need to hear</title>
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		<title>By: Kat Weitzel</title>
		<link>http://www.daniellelaporte.com/relationship-sex-articles/talkin-swee-about-love-what-the-shrinks-need-to-hear/#comment-357</link>
		<dc:creator>Kat Weitzel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 22:59:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This post was awesome.  I love your sass and raw honesty.  You inspire me to strip away my should(s) and fears to revel in just me.  Thank you very much for that.  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post was awesome.  I love your sass and raw honesty.  You inspire me to strip away my should(s) and fears to revel in just me.  Thank you very much for that.  :)</p>
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		<title>By: love sucks, but you can&#8217;t beat it &#124; White Hot Truth: because self-realization rocks.</title>
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		<dc:creator>love sucks, but you can&#8217;t beat it &#124; White Hot Truth: because self-realization rocks.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 08:07:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...]  talkinâ€™ sweet about love: what the shrinks need to hear posted 8 Jul 09 in: relationships + sex articles &#160; &#183; &#160; tags: love, marriage &#160; &#183; &#160; 20 comments [...] </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...]  talkinâ€™ sweet about love: what the shrinks need to hear posted 8 Jul 09 in: relationships + sex articles &nbsp; &middot; &nbsp; tags: love, marriage &nbsp; &middot; &nbsp; 20 comments [...] </p>
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		<title>By: Danielle LaPorte</title>
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		<dc:creator>Danielle LaPorte</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 00:01:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>here&#039;s to Zen/Normal...if there is such a thing...no wait...let&#039;s declare it: Zen Normal rocks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>here's to Zen/Normal...if there is such a thing...no wait...let's declare it: Zen Normal rocks.</p>
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		<title>By: biren</title>
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		<dc:creator>biren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 18:23:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>liked your post... well, ok... loved it...
and makes me want to share two points:
one - i have tried something similar to what Dr. Burns says... and it worked like magic.
two - but what you say is more practical as in &#039;practice-able&#039;. Doing it Dr. burns way is like suddenly turning your car 180 dgrees - you can do it only when it is on a revolving platform... or anything where the car is not in normal mode of use.
while what you say is like turning the car with the steering wheel - gently, as it is in motion.

to practice burns advice, i will need to first become a zen monk...
so... thums up to your way. atleast for us &#039;normal&#039; people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>liked your post... well, ok... loved it...<br />
and makes me want to share two points:<br />
one - i have tried something similar to what Dr. Burns says... and it worked like magic.<br />
two - but what you say is more practical as in 'practice-able'. Doing it Dr. burns way is like suddenly turning your car 180 dgrees - you can do it only when it is on a revolving platform... or anything where the car is not in normal mode of use.<br />
while what you say is like turning the car with the steering wheel - gently, as it is in motion.</p>
<p>to practice burns advice, i will need to first become a zen monk...<br />
so... thums up to your way. atleast for us 'normal' people.</p>
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		<title>By: Emma</title>
		<link>http://www.daniellelaporte.com/relationship-sex-articles/talkin-swee-about-love-what-the-shrinks-need-to-hear/#comment-353</link>
		<dc:creator>Emma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 21:43:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gorgeous! Yes. Exactly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gorgeous! Yes. Exactly.</p>
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		<title>By: Danielle LaPorte</title>
		<link>http://www.daniellelaporte.com/relationship-sex-articles/talkin-swee-about-love-what-the-shrinks-need-to-hear/#comment-352</link>
		<dc:creator>Danielle LaPorte</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 00:28:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>okay, you&#039;re right. &quot;Why Talking is Not Enough: 8 Loving Actions That Will Transform Your Marriage.&quot; is a total downer. I put it in  my READ.LISTEN.LINK section , but bag it, i need to remove it - you reminded me of how evil and unevolved I felt when I read it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>okay, you're right. "Why Talking is Not Enough: 8 Loving Actions That Will Transform Your Marriage." is a total downer. I put it in  my READ.LISTEN.LINK section , but bag it, i need to remove it - you reminded me of how evil and unevolved I felt when I read it.</p>
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		<title>By: Danielle LaPorte</title>
		<link>http://www.daniellelaporte.com/relationship-sex-articles/talkin-swee-about-love-what-the-shrinks-need-to-hear/#comment-351</link>
		<dc:creator>Danielle LaPorte</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 00:25:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey ordinary Grace...you have a lovely blog.
xo
D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey ordinary Grace...you have a lovely blog.<br />
xo<br />
D</p>
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		<title>By: Danielle LaPorte</title>
		<link>http://www.daniellelaporte.com/relationship-sex-articles/talkin-swee-about-love-what-the-shrinks-need-to-hear/#comment-350</link>
		<dc:creator>Danielle LaPorte</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 00:24:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>white hot = the part of the flame that is the hottest. supah pure, supah powah.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>white hot = the part of the flame that is the hottest. supah pure, supah powah.</p>
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		<title>By: MoJo</title>
		<link>http://www.daniellelaporte.com/relationship-sex-articles/talkin-swee-about-love-what-the-shrinks-need-to-hear/#comment-349</link>
		<dc:creator>MoJo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 03:25:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oooooh - kick it off with a bang! Great post...who knew, you&#039;re a love guru too!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oooooh - kick it off with a bang! Great post...who knew, you're a love guru too!</p>
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		<title>By: cindy cummins</title>
		<link>http://www.daniellelaporte.com/relationship-sex-articles/talkin-swee-about-love-what-the-shrinks-need-to-hear/#comment-348</link>
		<dc:creator>cindy cummins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 23:03:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yeah, I&#039;m a white girl, but that&#039;s probably not what white hot love refers to is it? just sounds that way.

anyway, when i saw white hot love i thought of embers not so much a racial thing. i wonder tho how that might be for other folks, unwhite, not like myself. you , for example, might be a personof color for all i know.

back to the post, well, i really like it. the fact it was recommended by a new fave writer jonathan mead and the fact that i was just talking about &quot;change&quot; as in my own self-centeredness today, and the fact that i do read oprah, not white--you wouldn&#039;t have been criticizing her personally here would you have?

well, before i embarrass myself too much, i better get my white hot a$$ out of here and click on the cute icon above.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeah, I'm a white girl, but that's probably not what white hot love refers to is it? just sounds that way.</p>
<p>anyway, when i saw white hot love i thought of embers not so much a racial thing. i wonder tho how that might be for other folks, unwhite, not like myself. you , for example, might be a personof color for all i know.</p>
<p>back to the post, well, i really like it. the fact it was recommended by a new fave writer jonathan mead and the fact that i was just talking about "change" as in my own self-centeredness today, and the fact that i do read oprah, not white--you wouldn't have been criticizing her personally here would you have?</p>
<p>well, before i embarrass myself too much, i better get my white hot a$$ out of here and click on the cute icon above.</p>
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