What it really means to 'Go with the flow'.
Going with the flow isn't about being passive or lazy. It's not about just letting things happen "to you". It's not aimless wandering. It's a co-creative act.
"The flow" is the ocean of cosmic intelligence. It's the substance that carries the whole shebang. The flow is life energy itself.
When a woman tangoes, every inch of her body is flowing into the man's lead. She's not complying, she's responding. Hockey great, Wayne Gretsky, said he "Just skated to where the puck was." Flow was his strategy.
So you can set down the zealous goal-chasing. You can burn your detailed five year plan. And you can certainly worry less about the right move/wrong move. You're not nuts, or submissive or lazy if you, like, go free form.
You're a Flow Artist. Or a Ninja of Flow -- take your pick. With keen senses, skilled daring, and the heart of a warrior. You're daring to catch a wave of truth, again, and again, and again.
Go with it.